Every year, Maia and Jake host some Halloween-loving friends for some pumpkin-carving silliness, an event called La Fiesta del Pumpkin. Yesterday, Margo participated in her first Fiesta. Not surprisingly, she slept through most of the event since it took place past her bedtime, but she did get to hang out a bit with the Gradia twins, Finn and Casey, and she got to model her pumpkin hat (of course, made by Grandma Nancy). The rest of the group had a great time carving pumpkins.
Archive for October, 2008
6 Months Old
Jake, Maia and Margo have been a family for 6 months. They’ve had the best time.

Margo Wearing Her Blue Hat

Jake Holding Margo While She Sucks Her Toe

Margo at the Pumpkin Patch

Margo Loves Sweet Potato
It’s All About Solutions
Margo usally hangs out in her bouncy seat in the mornings when Maia is showering and getting ready for work. Until recently, she has been perfectly content to just watch the moving fish display. But recently, she has decided that she would like to play with the toys that hang down from the display. Unfortunately, they are just out of her reach. Being the problem-solver that she is, she has discovered that she can use her foot to move the toys closer so that she can grab them. Pretty clever.
Pretty soon Jake is going to get Margo started working on Translink!
Who Ordered the Rice Cereal?
There’s so much going on!
Jake went back to work (pretty routine, really); Margo, Jake and Maia went to the Rockridge street fair, where they ran into half of Maia’s Mom’s Group; Margo has a place in a daycare (Cornerstone Children’s Center) starting Nov. 3; Maia and Jake hired a nanny to take care of Margo during October; Margo went to the local playground with Grace (the nanny); Aunt Nora, and her parents; and Margo had her first taste of rice cereal!
Jake spent his last two days of paternity leave “training” Jim (Margo’s grandfather) and Grace to be with Margo. They are part of the team taking care of Margo until November, when she will begin daycare. On their first day together, Grace took Margo to Avenue Terrace Playground, which was Margo’s first trip to a playground. They went again on Grace’s first full day with Margo, and Margo has been almost every day since. When Aunt Nora was taking care of Margo, she put Margo on the swing (perhaps beginning what might be many years of exposing Margo to life’s adventures before Jake and Maia are ready).
Not to worry, Jake and Maia put Margo on the swing when they took her to the playground.
Margo’s disposition seemed to change a bit in the past week. She started waking up one more time each night, she started taking much more of an interest in the food that Maia and Jake eat, her appetite seemed to increase (from two feedings during the mid-day to three), she increased her efforts to put everything in her mouth, and she seemed to get a little fussier than usual. The interest she was taking in Jake and Maia’s food combined with her extra appetite led Maia and Jake to conclude that – perhaps – it was time to offer Margo something other than milk. So, on Saturday, October 4, Margo Avidon tried rice cereal for the first time.
Most of the rice cereal ended up on Margo’s face or her bib, but she definitely took some of the cereal in her mouth and swallowed it. Jake and Maia don’t think the rice cereal will replace milk anytime soon as the staple of Margo’s diet, but it sure was fun to see her eating from a spoon.
Paternity Leave
I loved being home with Margo. It was such a great month.
We sang songs, we sat on the steps and watched kids walking to school and joggers jogging, we went for walks, we went to baby massage class (including feeding Margo during class), we went to San Francisco a couple of times (which led to Margo’s getting fussy on the BART ride home, which led to what felt like half of a rush-hour crowd on a BART car trying to cheer her up), we even showed up for Maia’s Mom’s Group walk in Redwood Regional Park. It was just so much fun to sit on the couch with her and sing “If your happy and you know it, clap your hands …” or to sit on a bench outside Market Hall and watch the people go by on College Ave.
The time went by so quickly. Being with her on my own made me feel so much more capable of being of her dad.
It was also hard sometimes. Just about the time I started taking care of her, she decided that she no longer needed long naps during the day. She also started to be a little less certain about when she wanted to nap, which meant I had to get better at understanding her sounds and her behavior. And, feeding her was always the toughest part of the day, though I did finally figure out that if her food was at room temperature, she wouldn’t spill so much of it down her bib and onto her neck.
I was sad on our last afternoon together, which we spent – not surprisingly – walking around Rockridge.
She’s so beautiful.









